How come guys don’t ask you out?

guys-never-ask-me-outGetting a date seems easy, but the question is how come no one is lining up to ask you out? This could be caused by a variety of factors such as your lack of availability, low self-esteem, bad habits, or other things that you do not notice.

How come guys do not ask you out?

This is a question that is not often asked by women because they are too afraid to recognize their own faults and are too proud to question themselves. Here are a few things that you should take note of as reasons as to why guys do not ask you out:


One of the main reasons you do not seem dateable is that you seem unavailable. You may be too busy, too distracted, or too high maintenance to get asked out on a date. Loosen up a bit and make time to meet other people. The older you get the harder it will be to find a suitable partner. And if you want to meet a guy that you can spend forever with, you need to take this stuff seriously!

One of the Guys Syndrome

Hanging out with your guy friends is not a bad idea, but their familiarity with you will lower your dating potential. Guys do not want another buddy who will watch sports with them or hang out and get a cold beer they already have their guy friends for that. Keep your feminine side and still hang out with your guy friends to make you dateable in the eyes of other guys or maybe even your friends.

Dressing the Part

Maybe one of the reasons why you don’t get asked out is the way you dress. Show some skin and be confident in your own body. You do not have to be a Playboy model to catch attention. Show a more confident you by dressing with confidence. Guys like a woman who is brimming with confidence.

And, perhaps it will help you feel a bit better to realize that men too struggle in this area. Sure that guy might seem to be in total control and have his choice of women, but maybe he had to study some training program on how to talk to girls like this one from in order to become so smooth with the ladies!