How come guys don’t ask you out?

guys-never-ask-me-outGetting a date seems easy, but the question is how come no one is lining up to ask you out? This could be caused by a variety of factors such as your lack of availability, low self-esteem, bad habits, or other things that you do not notice.

How come guys do not ask you out?

This is a question that is not often asked by women because they are too afraid to recognize their own faults and are too proud to question themselves. Here are a few things that you should take note of as reasons as to why guys do not ask you out:


One of the main reasons you do not seem dateable is that you seem unavailable. You may be too busy, too distracted, or too high maintenance to get asked out on a date. Loosen up a bit and make time to meet other people. The older you get the harder it will be to find a suitable partner. And if you want to meet a guy that you can spend forever with, you need to take this stuff seriously!

One of the Guys Syndrome

Hanging out with your guy friends is not a bad idea, but their familiarity with you will lower your dating potential. Guys do not want another buddy who will watch sports with them or hang out and get a cold beer they already have their guy friends for that. Keep your feminine side and still hang out with your guy friends to make you dateable in the eyes of other guys or maybe even your friends.

Dressing the Part

Maybe one of the reasons why you don’t get asked out is the way you dress. Show some skin and be confident in your own body. You do not have to be a Playboy model to catch attention. Show a more confident you by dressing with confidence. Guys like a woman who is brimming with confidence.

And, perhaps it will help you feel a bit better to realize that men too struggle in this area. Sure that guy might seem to be in total control and have his choice of women, but maybe he had to study some training program on how to talk to girls like this one from in order to become so smooth with the ladies!

Single? Here’s The Truth About Attracting Men

Attract A HusbandAttracting men is not as difficult as you may think. Men are simple beings. Well, compared to women at least, they are simpler. Making them attracted to you is really more about the right ways to attract them. Having said this, there are not really a lot of new ways to successfully attract men, which have not already been covered. Be yourself, dress and look in an appropriate, yet attractive manner, become a great listener, etc. These are just some of the ways which have already been covered by countless other write-ups in the past with regards to the topic of attracting men. However, there may be one particular tip which has not really been widely explored yet. This tip, no matter how basic, no matter how standard, and no matter how “old-fashioned” it may be, is the ultimate way to attract the right men, for you. This tip, is none other than the truth.

Any, and every great thing, whether it be a relationship, a marriage, a partnership, a business, heck, even a government or country, is only made great, if the center of it all, is the truth. Ever heard of the expression, “…and the truth shall set you free…” That expression has never been truer than any other expression out there. If you make sure to remain true, not only to yourself, but to that man you are gunning to attract, then initial attraction matters little. He will surely, and undoubtedly be attracted to you for a very, very long time.

Do not be intimidated by sticking to truth. Why, the ancient Roman and Greek “deity” for truth was a woman. How ironic is that? Trust yourself, and moreover, trust the truth. It will never lead you astray, and attracting men is the least of the bonuses you get from sticking by it.